I can guarantee you every retirement community is filled to the brim with Kens and Karen's complaining. The retirement community the lady friend lives in with her dad has people breaking the gate that leads into the community because they're to impatient to put in the code or press the button so they try to quickly slip in behind the person in front of them.Unfortunately that kind of situation is getting more and more rare in the USA as each day goes by. But I remember as a child in
the 1970s in the mid west right outside of big city chicago, in the west/northwest suburbs Buffalo Grove, Dundee, Wheeling, ect
that while people didn't always know each other (and the populations were not small) there was still a good deal of decency in those places. You do not see this today at all. It is a cultural and generational thing in the USA.