In regard to the OPs question, there is plenty of UOA macro data to show that a 5w-30 will suffice in his application with no adverse effects.
And the same goes for the Triton engines (all of them; 4.6L, 5.4L, 6.8L; 2v, 3v). I have, quite literally, more than 1500 UOAs on these engines. I've seen data from run-of-the-mill 5w-20 up to premium 15w-40 used in them, and everything in-between. I can say with absolute certainty that, as long as a proper API spec'd lube was used (or a "better" boutique lube), there is no reason to believe that a grade caused any engine malfunction and demise.
No one is questioning that a failure occurred in that motorhome. But what we find difficult (nay, impossible?) to believe is that using a grade different from the one the OEM recommends somehow caused the demise of that engine. As I've often said, do not confuse correlation with causation.