Not quite. The PD oil pump is feeding the turbo in parallel with the other parasitic oil flows.
You seem to think that there’s a gerotor or gear pump feeding oil only to a turbo.
Obviously, the oil flow going to all parts of the oiling system is supplied by the PD pump - why would I think there's a separate PD pump for the turbo, lol ... only if it has a "pre-lube" or "turbo cooler" after shutdown pump on the circuit. The flow through each parallel path in the oiling system will be dependent on the oil pressure on the supply end of each parallel circuit path. So if you look at the pressure produced at the start of the flow path going to the turbo at a constant engine RPM and oil temperature, the flow going through that flow path and through the turbo will be dependent on the viscosity and local feed pressure. At a constant engine RPM, as the viscosity goes down, the supply pressure also goes down (even if the pump is still in partial relief), and therefore so does the pressure at the beginning of the flow path to the turbo. So you'd have to actually look at both factors going on in each separate flow circuit within the oiling system - that being the pressure and viscosity at the source of each independent parallel circuit.
Not only that, but the oil pump has excess capacity in most engines at cruise rpm, so the nominal condition has the pressure regulator bypass cracked.
Even so, the above would apply. The flow through each parallel circuit in the oiling system will be dependent on the pressure at the source of each independent parrallel circuit and the viscosity, regardless if the pump was in relief or not.
This is why many cars do not show any reduction in oil pressure with thinner or hotter oil; the higher flow through the bearings and such with the thinner oil is oil that would otherwise have been internal recirculated inside the oil pump operating in bypass.
Every engine I've had with a PD oil pump with a spring loaded pressure relief valve certainly does show higher oil pressure with a thicker oil, even at full operating temperature. It's really noticeable when the oil is colder and thicker of course. A simple spring loaded pressure relief valve can't perfectly control the max oil pressure. If it could, you wouldn't see a difference in cold oil pressure with different oil viscosity with the engine at the same RPM. Only a computer controlled pressure relief system with real time pressure sensor closed-loop feedback could do something like that.
But there is indeed higher oil flow occurring at the same oil pressure right up until the bypass is closed and the PD pump follows the output curve for the pump speed and oil viscosity.
In a fixed flow resistance path, like the parallel flow circuit to the turbo and back to the sump, the flow rate will be proportional to the supply pressure divided by the dynamic viscosity. So the flow with a different viscosity oil at the same engine RPM depends on how the supply pressure at the start of the turbo oiling circuit changes with the different oil viscosity, and yes how much the pump is in relief or not. If the supply pressure changes (gets lower) with thinner oil (lower viscosity), then then the pressure and viscosity factors could basically cancel each other out and the flow essentially be the same. In any case, using a slightly different oil viscosity isn't going to be noticeable to make any real difference if you could even mearure the difference in the first place.
But you are correct—going up to a 30wt will not harm a turbo. And I’m running 5w-30 in my own k20c4 which calls for 0w-20, so I’m agreeing with you in practice, not just in theory.
Good move ... going up a grade like that is going to do more good than not.