Not to channel the late Yogi Berra but however long it takes OP to get where he goes, is however long it takes. There is chaos in the world and part of that is compromising your own speed/ lane position to play with others, even if it is them who are in the wrong.
If he thinks he can control the world, it's going to lead to undue stress.
If he thinks he can control the world, it's going to lead to undue stress.