It is neither ugly nor pretty, just different.
IMHO, Honda needs to hire some designers from the UK, Italy or Germany, or all three.
Honda once made some really attractive cars.
Not too many left whether badged as H or A.
Anyway, among minivans, this is probably the best driving one.
In stylistic terms, at least it isn't a complete box.
It would be much better looking with a smooth beltline, sans the bizarre little kick-up at the rear of the sliding doors, which could be easily fixed with new skins for the sliding doors and a smaller third side window.