3. Re those hydraulic tensioners: I've always read 100,000 mile lifespan, but if K-man has better info, 80 it is.
It might make sense to acquire these tensioners while you still can. And just to repeat, they don't match....two different part numbers. And yes to the crush washers. There are many stories about people resurrecting the 4.0l SOHC and finding missing crush washers and having to deal with old, dry sealant. Also, the warnings about cross threading these things are constant.
4. What I do, and what is said to be very smart is to employ the "Clear Flooded Engine" cranking method for your first start of the day or after your workday.
Insert ignition key and turn to ON...when the dash lights up.
Depress the accelerator all the way to the floor. This turns OFF spark and fuel delivery.
Crank the engine for 3-5 seconds to build oil pressure.
Release everything....then start as normal.
Starting my 4.0 dry results in a half-second chirp. Starting after oil priming eliminates every bit of noise.
This IS what you want to do. The prime lasts a long time.
10. What I need to do is lube my column shifter rod as it's quite stiff. The trannie shifts fine.