In my part of the world, if someone invites others to a dinner party, that person is the host and pays for everything.
For Independence Day, my sister invited everyone down to second cousins to her new beach "cabin" to celebrate. She suggested others could bring salads, deserts or whatever, but no one was told their share was any amount of money. The food was pretty good quality stuff too. In my case, I brought the Excalibur (expensive fireworks illegal in most states, the party was in Washington), not because I was asked to, she never said a thing.
I would skip a dinner invitation from anyone that comes with a price tag.
But, no one has any manners any longer.
For Independence Day, my sister invited everyone down to second cousins to her new beach "cabin" to celebrate. She suggested others could bring salads, deserts or whatever, but no one was told their share was any amount of money. The food was pretty good quality stuff too. In my case, I brought the Excalibur (expensive fireworks illegal in most states, the party was in Washington), not because I was asked to, she never said a thing.
I would skip a dinner invitation from anyone that comes with a price tag.
But, no one has any manners any longer.