Unfortunately you’re in a no win situation with an addict and potentially an enabler.
Confront the issue/s and you’re going to be the bad guy. Tune him up for crossing the line and being disrespectful and you’re going to be the bad guy. Distance yourself from the toxic environment altogether and you’re going to be the bad guy. Anything you do other than quietly take it and you’re going to be the bad guy. But even then you’re still probably going to be the bad guy. Because that is how the cycle of abuse and addiction works. Hurt people will hurt people.
You just have to decide what kind of life you want to live and who you want to live it around at this point.
Confront the issue/s and you’re going to be the bad guy. Tune him up for crossing the line and being disrespectful and you’re going to be the bad guy. Distance yourself from the toxic environment altogether and you’re going to be the bad guy. Anything you do other than quietly take it and you’re going to be the bad guy. But even then you’re still probably going to be the bad guy. Because that is how the cycle of abuse and addiction works. Hurt people will hurt people.
You just have to decide what kind of life you want to live and who you want to live it around at this point.
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