Agree buy it 100% or walk. In my experience, this never works out with co-owners.
I think the druggie probably has mom's earBuy it 100% or walk. She knows he cant afford it , but wants him to live there, with you paying for it. You will infact inherit him as a dependant you can't get rid of , if he owns any percent of it.
Probably so. It's the only way he can live there as a sponge is if he owns a small percent and everyone else foots the bill.I think the druggie probably has mom's ear
You're old enough to not have to do things you don't want to. If you don't want to go, don't go. Don't give in to others control, manipulation issues. I would not go if druggie was there anyway.we didn’t attend the cabin last year. (There was a blowout,when mil attacked me for not buying the cabin) we’ve been invited back and she wants things to “go back to normal”. Says we don’t have to do any work or pay for anything. Just come out.
I don’t want to. It’s off grid. Lots of work just getting there (100 feet down a hill with our stuff, and onto a boat). Then up 100 feet to the cabin. Once we get there it’s a crap shoot that there’s propane, etc because he’s been there using everything.
I sure did.You said obsessed with forearms . Did you mean firearms ?
The cabin is only for sale with him. I’ve literally used the power of the internet to scour the globe. I was unable to find a cabin for sale that comes with its very own 40 year old semi employed man.Absolutely 100% walk away. She can sell to someone else who wants it, or get a reverse mortgage so it crashes and burns when she's gone.
No one in the family wants it (second youngest sibling also wanted it for free and was upset at us for wanting to buy it. Some people just don’t get it.Absolutely 100% walk away. She can sell to someone else who wants it, or get a reverse mortgage so it crashes and burns when she's gone.
That's her personal rule.The cabin is only for sale with him. I’ve literally used the power of the internet to scour the globe. I was unable to find a cabin for sale that comes with its very own 40 year old semi employed man.
The,cabin is,not for sale without him. She’s gonna,try and keep it supposedly.That's her personal rule.
Not the ability of what can be done.
She should sell the whole thing and tell her son she'll keep money aside for him to inherit if it'll keep him off her back.
It’s in Canada.Buy it all and don’t let BIL use it or better, just have the mom sell it. Paying for half and doing most of the work but using it a fraction of the time is a crap deal.
Shared ownership can make even “normal” people do stupid things. Where is this cabin located?
O boyI sure did.
All this is more of a walk away deal.It’s in Canada.
I don’t want it. It’s a ton of work to even just get there and be all set up. You need 1. Deep pockets as everything is more expensive than traditional cabins, or you need 2. A big family (think human Ponzi scheme, lol) to take over when ya get too old.
she won’t sell now. She wants him to have a cabin. God forbid he actually pay for it.