I actually went so far out of line tonight, to correct my 5 year old nephew in front of his mother, at my parents' house.
And my nephew was completely stunned when it happened. I don't think it has ever happened much before.
Now, my sister and brother in law are upset at me (that's putting it mildly). Sis hasn't realized it yet, but our parents actually support what I did.
My nephew was out of control, and my sister was doing nothing about it. When my sister was speaking, he would talk louder than her, at one point, he went so far to tell her to "shut up"... and my sister just acts like it isn't happening.
Remember that he's five years old, and he demands to be the center of attention.
Then, he started doing the same thing when I was talking. And that lasted for about 30 seconds before I corrected him. He was trying to talk over me, and was waving his arms in the air.
I reached out, took his hands, and put them down in his lap, and told him in a normal tone of voice to "hush".
That's when my sister came unglued. I know it wasn't my place to do that. I should have simply got up and walked out of the room.
Sis then told me that I acted the same way when I was his age. No... if I had told either one of our parents to "shut up" when I was 5... there would have been some serious consequences. (Well, it never would have happened in the first place... but if it had happened, it wouldn't have been pleasant).
Sis has apparently completely forgotten how WE were raised as kids.
Her view on this, is that since I don't have kids, I don't have a clue on any part of what it would take to raise a child.
I hate to tell her, but my dog is better behaved than her kid.
I guess that either she'll get over it.... or maybe she won't.
And my nephew was completely stunned when it happened. I don't think it has ever happened much before.
Now, my sister and brother in law are upset at me (that's putting it mildly). Sis hasn't realized it yet, but our parents actually support what I did.
My nephew was out of control, and my sister was doing nothing about it. When my sister was speaking, he would talk louder than her, at one point, he went so far to tell her to "shut up"... and my sister just acts like it isn't happening.
Remember that he's five years old, and he demands to be the center of attention.
Then, he started doing the same thing when I was talking. And that lasted for about 30 seconds before I corrected him. He was trying to talk over me, and was waving his arms in the air.
I reached out, took his hands, and put them down in his lap, and told him in a normal tone of voice to "hush".
That's when my sister came unglued. I know it wasn't my place to do that. I should have simply got up and walked out of the room.
Sis then told me that I acted the same way when I was his age. No... if I had told either one of our parents to "shut up" when I was 5... there would have been some serious consequences. (Well, it never would have happened in the first place... but if it had happened, it wouldn't have been pleasant).
Sis has apparently completely forgotten how WE were raised as kids.
Her view on this, is that since I don't have kids, I don't have a clue on any part of what it would take to raise a child.
I hate to tell her, but my dog is better behaved than her kid.
I guess that either she'll get over it.... or maybe she won't.
