I agree and we can look at recent event to know this is absolutely true. ('experts' get things wrong a lot for various reasons.)This is what makes these forums useful. Disagreement and differing points of view.
Most definitely there are experts, and there are "experts".
Back on topic...In a low tech (European) engine like the VW 2.slow or VW 2.5 5 cylinder I would have no problem running an ILSAC 5w30 synthetic oil even though it doesn't meet VW specs (I'd shorten OCIs to 5 to 7K). On a high tech small turbo like the BMW in question....I'd stick to an oil that met BMW specs. especially since they cost about the same at Walmart (at least they did before the unsolved 'supply chain issues' made everything hard to get).