Your lucky that your 2002 Accord's A/T lasted 180k as I believe it used the same troublesome BAXA unit as my 2001 Accord. I agree with you about the fuel into oil dilution issue with some of Honda's latest offerings. I'd shop Toyota or Mazda if I were in the market for a new vehicle.
I may end up trading the 2018. I always try to keep vehicles "like new" and for as many years as possible. Its a fun little game the wife and I started years ago. Our record all time was the 18 years old Accord. Oh, I know how lucky we were. A lot of times with cars luck plays a big part no matter what we do. Those 2002 Accords were notorious for transaxle implosions. At the time that was at least a $4000 repair / replace job. WOOF! With the help of a couple buddies, Honda service manager and a Honda Dealership Tech I knew for years , we managed to baby it along and it never even slipped but once or twice. They had me flush the fluid once a year and use a certain
(non street use) transmission fluid. Those had no replaceable filters. Drain & flush. We changed the timing belt as required and amazingly only adjusted the valves one time in all those years. I am certain it lasted so long like that too because we put very low mi per year on it after 2009 once wife got a new one to sit next to it in the garage. We did drive that 2002 from coast to coast across the USA a couple times when it was new. We still driving her 2009 (152,000mi) now. My last truck, a Ford F150 was with us for 16 years. I used to detail and shine that factory white paint job so much it near glowed in the sun. LOL Almost every other time I was putting gas in it someone at the gas pumps would approach me to ask
"what local paint shop did your truck repaint?" I would laugh and tell them
"Ford Motor Company! over 15 years ago." Mr Obama's Cash for clunkers finally took it away from me. Could not pass it up.