You don't need antiseize paste--there's plenty of oil doing that job.
Copper work hardens. Your copper gasket isn't as soft and malleable as it was when new. You can replace it with new copper, new aluminum, or new fiber gasket. If fiber, be sure to use a new one each time.
I've replaced plugs with oil in the pan. When the oil is cold & thick, remove the plug, put your thumb over the hole, change the gasket (maybe a helper will do that for you), stick the plug back in. I can do it and lose less than a pint of oil.
Work hardened copper gaskets can be annealed. Get them red hot and quench in water...I know what someone's going to say, but copper has a different crystal structure from steel, and this is how to anneal copper and how to harden steel.
By the way, even if someone suggests it to stop leaks, never use Teflon tape on drain plug threads. It'll stick on the pan threads and eventually be pushed into the pan. If it accumulates, it can clog something. Anyway, Teflon tape is only for tapered pipe threads, not straight threads with a gasket, and I don't think it works well on anything.
Ken
[ October 07, 2003, 12:52 PM: Message edited by: Ken2 ]