I believe some level of detergents etc. are required in all fuels sold in this country. This eases the urgency of your unicorn hunt.
Techron, mentioned above, is a darling on this board though its "solvent content" has never come up. I believe it has none.
How precisely do you intend dose your fuel? If it's that critical, you should go to the same TT outlet and pray they blend consistently.
Remember, some premium stations claim to exceed TT additive levels.
Can you live with using various fuel sources and just keep a "concentration calculation" running in your head? That's what I do with premium fuel. Both my vehicles run on regular but when I go Interstate, I want the engine to be able to advance its spark as it sees fit.
Regarding manufacturers' warnings against fuel additives: I've always presumed they want to curtail bozos dumping hideous chemicals into their tanks. If a poorly running engine finally sees service, various chems in the tank can complicate diagnosis.
Also, I believe manufacturers are always experimenting with new plastics everywhere in vehicles. They don't want your wife's nail polish remover (acetone) dissolving their newly formulated hoses.
Like they say; don't stick things in your ears and keep junk outta your gas tank.