As I was discussing in a thread I started several weeks ago, my particular Mazda's ECU must know the oil pressure because when its as hot as it gets where I live, while using lower viscosity oil, the valve timing changes and power is cut where power does the most damage (hard launches and hard shifts and rapid on off throttle use). The vehicle won't burn a drop of oil with 0w20 typically, but if I trick it into not cutting power by messing with clutch switch that sends signals to the ECU about clutch use, it will stop cutting power, remove rev hang (even when hot out) and it will consume a bit of oil in the process. There's no doubt in my my mind that in many vehicles spec'd for 0w20, 0w20 is a safe enough to use viscosity ONLY because many vehicles are de-tuned to survive while running 0w20 oil. This detuning pretty much eliminates the possibility of the engine can be operated in ways that will destroy itself while using 0w20 oils.
All this to say, there are some makes out there where 0w20 is recommended and have oil consumption issues using that oil, worse in manual transmissions where the ECU has less control over engine conditions, tells me that not all cars are as detuned. Example would be Subarus, even after the low tension ring fiasco, they still seem to be burning oil after the fix, and those who just use higher viscosity ( mostly Europeans) aren't plagued with oil consumption issues regardless of what transmission.
So my verdict is yes, 0w20 is safe to use in most modern cars that spec it's use, but not because the oil itself is superior to oils with greater film thickness, but because of the OEM's removing/reducing the engines ability to operate in conditions that it will destroy itself in. Think about how dull and disconnected a new Corolla feels compared to one from 1996 that gave you all it had when you stomped on it. Even automatics were 100% predictable and responsive some 25 years ago. Put 0w20 in those old cars and drive them gently under 55mph, and they will last forever. Beat the snot out of them and the engines will burn up very very quickly. It's the tuning.