Did you do the accumulator mod on the MT? That thing drove me crazy in the brief time I had the 3rd gen 6MT...My 2019 Tacoma is fine. BUT I did have to re-gear to 4.88 and OV Tune it. Plenty of pep, MT is perfect, and cab quiet. Now that I added Bilsteins the ride is spectacular.
All that said it does sound almost like Toyota doesn't care a wit about the USA audience anymore sadly. Almost as bad as Honda, Mazda, Subaru........
Not sure what to buy next car, yet. My truck until whatever age I croak.