I got the same gas mileage, same wear metals, my oil filter was clean like before, and my engine produced the same power. That's why I didn't feel any difference. You got my answer. Now I want to learn from you, I'm not being rude or anything. Convince me that why I need Boutique oil, why?
OK, so let's go through these:
1. Gas mileage: Mobil noted that going from like a 50 grade to a 30 only improved fuel economy around 1%, so no, I wouldn't expect a different brand of oil in the same grade to have a measurable impact here, certainly not by Joe Average with no lab.
2. UOA's don't directly measure wear. Wear is being inferred from a narrow range of particles below 5 microns that is presented in parts per million. These results cannot be used comparatively to judge wear performance. What you can judge is TBN retention and viscosity loss (with an accompanying VOA).
3. Sounds like your engine is clean running and isn't producing particulate. That's good. Well maintained engines, with the exception of certain engine families (GM's LT engines and the HEMI's for example) generally produce little particulate, it's part of the reason filters have been downsized.
4. Unless you have serious issues with your compression rings (unlikely, you said your engine is well maintained) you won't have any measurable difference in power output.
For AMSOIL, historically, it was about extended drain intervals. If you have an application that's hard on oil, using something that's more resistant to viscosity loss for example, can be a tangible benefit, particularly if your application specs something with a wider spread like a 0W-40 (like my Jeep does), which I doubt is the case for your Sienna.
My 5.7L, despite a life on M1 EP 0W-20, revealed considerable carbon in the oil filter after its first run on HPL. That was eye-opening. That said, I've seen several other examples of different engines that didn't have that experience, so this is not some universal truth. If you have an engine that is clean running and isn't generating this sort of material, or isn't prone to ring coking or other issues (which some engines are), then the potential benefits from a more robust and less constrained formulation approach, or become, insignificant.
So, for your Sienna, there may be no reason at all to run a boutique oil. And I think you had expectations that were unrealistic out of the gate, which, not surprisingly, were not met.