Originally Posted By: OtisBlkR1
I have offered and suggested my wife stay home and raise our children.. She completely 100% refuses this.. she wants to work, she wants to get out of the house.
All I can say is that things aren't going to end well.
Being a wife is hard.
Being an employee at a job you don't like is hard.
Being a mother is hard.
Going to school is hard.
Being pregnant is hard.
Trying to do all of those things at the same time certainly isn't any easier than doing 1, 2, or 3 of the things all at the same time.
Some people aren't happy in life unless they bite off way more than they can possibly handle at once, just because if they don't, they worry that it might not be available later, when they can handle that part of it.
I can truly understand her having a job, and hating it thoroughly. I suffered through a job for 3 years until this past February when I got back into my previous career once again. Life is so much better.
What I have learned over the years is, depending on the career, having a degree either is really, really important, or not really important at all. Sometimes having a degree in something is more important than having a degree in exactly that business model.
Have her try and apply for the job she really wants right from now, and if she gets an interview, have her tell them she's "currently" taking classes on the subject, so she will be more effective in the new job as she gains experience from two different sources (on the job and school). I guarantee that will impress the HR recruiter just as much as already having the degree in hand, depending on the career.
I enjoy my job, and make a decent salary, but most importantly, I LOVE the company, my coworkers, and the environment here at work. I get to problem solve, and my degree status wasn't the most important aspect of my resume and interview. Knowing what I was talking about, having the previous job experiences that I did, and knowing exactly the right people to get you to the interview was way more important.
BC.