I'd like to hear the manufacturer's lawyer explain why a grade or two above a xW-16 or xW-20 would destroy an engine. If they hired an enginneer/Tribologist he would say it can't, and only help better protect the engine. Now if someone used 20W-xx in -35F start-ups and the oil didn't pump and starved the engine of lubrication, I could see a warranty denial.
If an engine "blows up" from a thicker hot viscosity lubrication issue, it's not going to be the viscosiy being used. It's going to be a lack of lubrication issue, like a mechanical related problem, or a very low sump level due to a leak and/or oil consumption and lack of maintenance and checking the oil level.