Man, just when I start to worry that I have a bad case of OCD, you guys come to the rescue and put things in perspective.
I have a reputation at work for having some of the best maintained equipment anywhere. But, material things are disposable to some extent and I can only say how wonderful it is to unburden oneself from the notion that life revolves around material things.
Deck maintenance has been discussed ad-nauseum at lawnsite.com and there seems to be no miracle cures without tons of effort. The grass eventually sand blasts any coating off.
Keeping it clean and dry, as stated above, is a good start. Fluid Film has worked well for some. It is a lanolin based penetrant/rust inhibitor that will seep into the seams to drive out moisture and retard rust.
Be careful of constant washing of the deck underside. Some spindles. when cooling down, will suck water into the bearings and shorten their life....so I am told.
Enough said. I'm going to the local air show to enjoy time with my wife - much more rewarding than time with the mower deck!