Seven pages of discussion around how tall of a ladder one needs to get out of a 10- foot hole.
A 10-foot ladder will do (and you could probably get by with 8-foot if you're desperate).
Then the boutique guys pipe in and try to convince everyone that a 12-foot ladder is better and a 14-foot ladder is the best and a 16-foot ladder, golly gee, it must be amazing!!!
What gets lost in the discussion is that the requirement is to get out of the 10-foot hole.
Once that is accomplished, it is irrelevant how much taller the ladder is.
So whether something is boutique, or distilled from the tears of unicorns, or a bespoke blend made just especially of one customer, the job of the product is to perform per the requirements. Everything in excess of that is nebulous fluff, just like the marketing teams want it to be.
Could the boutique product perform better that something that just meets the spec? I suppose it possible, but it also begs the question of 'Who cares, given that the specifications are written to completely encompass the operational requirements of the product?'.
Then, on top of that, the discussion goes to the degree to which products exceed the performance specification. These discussions are typically backed up with incomplete snippets of data, complaints of lack of standardized testing across the marketplace, and marketing information heavily slanted to the producers favor.
So if you want to purchase a product because it's 'the best' in your mind, feel free to do so, but to go around and actually claim it's better for the job at hand is a fool's errand.
Once again we have the 'if it meets the spec' and the 'cost of operation' person chime in.
Here's the thing. We have hard, white paper data that concludes that better base oils (group IV/V), and certain additives provide superior characteristics in engine oil. I'm not going to find them all for you because I've already read them and don't need your approval of my knowledge, but you can find it yourself.
Even if an off the shelf oil will perform the job we require adequately under 'normal conditions', some of us like an additional margin for error, especially those of us that use our cars in unconventional ways (the racetrack) and/or modify them with performance enhancers. **** happens. We've put some extra sticky tires on the car and the oil now moves farther away from the pickup in the pan. Then during a particularly high-g corner we hit the track curb and the car bounces, meaning the oil pickup is temporarily 'dry'. Running superior oil with a great additive package can definitely turn this situation from major to not-so-major. An injector is dirty and one cylinder is running a little lean and therefore extra hot. We're running the turbo at a higher boost than factory, meaning it's spinning faster and therefore getting hotter and trying harder to shear the oil. A superior lubricant provides the margin of error for these conditions.
I mean hell, we've seen this in tons of turbochargers over the years, someone is running a turbo hard with inadequate oil and the thing cokes up and dies, or kills it's thrust bearings. Change the turbo, change the lubricant, and it never happens again. Huh, must be coincidence, because that other oil "met the spec" for the engine, huh? The engineers that spec the oil can't and don't see every possible condition the engine will be used in, nor is it their job to. Their job is to produce an engine that makes the performance and emissions numbers under the majority of conditions with the weight of oil that they need to do it's job under those same conditions. That's it, they don't care about the rest because they're not paid to.
It's also not the job of the big oil formulators to figure this out or to tailor to the smaller market demand of the people that want the absolute best. Their product is being built for the average consumer, and needs to 'meet the spec' and/or provide some advantage that is easily marketable, like guarantees of long OCI's or 'the official oil of Nascar'. This has the advantage of allowing the economy of scale, meaning they can produce some really good oils at low cost because they deal in such massive quantities. It's still not the same as producing an absolutely top of the line product for the niche market of enthusiasts.
Since we have these facts, along with an absolutely massive amount of anecdotal data that supports them, why are you still on about how nothing can possibly ever be better than an oil that meets the spec and we're all wasting our time and money? Your perspective is incorrect. There are superior lubricants that perform better and result in a better performing engine with a lower wear rate. We can all agree that UOA's have too many variables to use as hard data. Until we find some way to confirm the science of better base oils and additives in an engine (they're already confirmed in lab tests), then we'll have to keep trusting the evidence of well-documented engines that outlast and outperform their typical peers due to using these superior products. End of story.