First off: GGGGWWRRaaaarrrrr Ahhhhhhhhh (rips out hair)
So I just moved into Pittsburgh and am totally single (No kids, No baggage) and I decide to give online dating a whirl. Since I know relatively few people in the city, I figure WHY NOT?! Im 31 SWM and relatively normal.
I place an ad and get jack squat in terms of replies for about a week.
Then one day...BOOM...Someone sends me a note:
Turns out she too was a world traveler (big on my list of likes) and noticed I had been to India, she cute, Blah blah blah...
After a few emails we decide to meet up. -Only When I was in town she was in Florida for a week -then when she got back from Florida, I had to go to NY for a week. Ok Fine, Im patient -but lets be real, we don't even know if we are going to like each other so the longer we drag this email thing out the higher the risk of disappointment...
But we email continuously anyway.
Finally, last week I get back from NY and we decide to get coffee -only it got cut short as she was called into work. I literaly shook her hand, started to walk into the coffee shop -then BOOM- Called into ER
Phuulleeez...
One week later, after txt and emails all week, we finally get to sit down FACE TO FACE and have dinner at a quiet Sushi place.
We had a GREAT time. Really. She is 10 on the looks scale. VERY outgoing and a doctor -training to be a surgeon! (I was slightly intimidated, I hope it didn't show) We stayed 2.5 hours at the Sushi place- and the conversation was engaging and not a dull moment. Truly.
So I walk her to her car and I gave her a bottle of wine I had brought back from NY. I asked her if we were going to do this again soon- and she said a little hike sounds like fun -but I didn't push to "secure" a date. She sounded somewhat ambiguous due to a work schedule.
Driving home -I'm thinking she was as into me as I was her-
However, I have not heard from her since (3days). -I sent a little thank you email and no reply nor has she txt me. Have not txt her as I do NOT want to be perceived as clingy.
Now my first question: #1 What ???!!!!
#2 Was she faking the fun at dinner? Just being polite?
She seemed like she would be more direct. - I realize Doctors are busy but c'mon!!! A txt or something takes a second to send.
Sorry this was long, but I had to blow up somewhere....
So I just moved into Pittsburgh and am totally single (No kids, No baggage) and I decide to give online dating a whirl. Since I know relatively few people in the city, I figure WHY NOT?! Im 31 SWM and relatively normal.
I place an ad and get jack squat in terms of replies for about a week.
Then one day...BOOM...Someone sends me a note:
Turns out she too was a world traveler (big on my list of likes) and noticed I had been to India, she cute, Blah blah blah...
After a few emails we decide to meet up. -Only When I was in town she was in Florida for a week -then when she got back from Florida, I had to go to NY for a week. Ok Fine, Im patient -but lets be real, we don't even know if we are going to like each other so the longer we drag this email thing out the higher the risk of disappointment...
But we email continuously anyway.
Finally, last week I get back from NY and we decide to get coffee -only it got cut short as she was called into work. I literaly shook her hand, started to walk into the coffee shop -then BOOM- Called into ER
Phuulleeez...
One week later, after txt and emails all week, we finally get to sit down FACE TO FACE and have dinner at a quiet Sushi place.
We had a GREAT time. Really. She is 10 on the looks scale. VERY outgoing and a doctor -training to be a surgeon! (I was slightly intimidated, I hope it didn't show) We stayed 2.5 hours at the Sushi place- and the conversation was engaging and not a dull moment. Truly.
So I walk her to her car and I gave her a bottle of wine I had brought back from NY. I asked her if we were going to do this again soon- and she said a little hike sounds like fun -but I didn't push to "secure" a date. She sounded somewhat ambiguous due to a work schedule.
Driving home -I'm thinking she was as into me as I was her-
However, I have not heard from her since (3days). -I sent a little thank you email and no reply nor has she txt me. Have not txt her as I do NOT want to be perceived as clingy.
Now my first question: #1 What ???!!!!
#2 Was she faking the fun at dinner? Just being polite?
She seemed like she would be more direct. - I realize Doctors are busy but c'mon!!! A txt or something takes a second to send.
Sorry this was long, but I had to blow up somewhere....
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