All too true.Men can be raped and killed too. So gender won't save anyone from potential atrocities committed. I'm reminded of Mogadishu. Or more recently October 7th, 2023 in Israel, which was backed by Iran.
I know of several women who fly fighter jets, and could be in harms way in this conflict. They know full well what the consequences could be of landing in enemy territory.
I knew one SEAL very well who knew the people he was sworn to defend against were often pure evil. An example were the people they were trying to stop when he was killed by putting himself in harms way to try and protect another team member who had been hit. The 'people' they were attempting to stop were strapping bombs to mentally challenged persons, sending those people out into crowded areas, and then setting off the bombs remotely when they reached sufficiently crowded areas...
There is good and evil in this world. For evil to prevail, it requires good men and women doing nothing.
I for one am grateful we didn't sit around and wait for Iran to develop an ICBM that could reach the US homeland, because I believe they absolutely would use it if allowed to attain that capability.
I guess you'll a) never neutralize evil here and b) never get rid of people second guessing (as in "how could you let that happen to xxxxxxxx)