In addition to Malaclypse's point, EGR's longevity has a lot to do as to how "hot" you maintain your combustion chamber/exhaust.
Most EGR valves are choked to death (causing leaks) due to carbon deposits. Where do they come from? frequent short trips (not enough time to bring the combustion chamber + exhaust to normal temp range, coupled with lack of maintenance (tuneups, sparkplug replacements, etc.) and also poor gasoline (leaving lots of deposits behind).
As for ICV's longevity due to oil fumes, yes, the more volatile the motor oil is, the more likely the IAC/ICV, MAF, thermalcouple (heating wire type) based MAS, etc. will becomes "sticky" due to oily films deposited on their moving/sensing parts.
To clean these components is to use some throttle cleaner spray (do not do this on thermalcouple based MAS, that calls for electical "dry" based spray) and then immediately wipe clean.
Using FP or Techron or similar on a regular basis, with proper long distance drive (hiway) will keep your EGR valve running nicely.