I been at the same company for 29 years and have the same work ethic now that I did on my first day. I feel it and I’m looking to get out next year. All my company cares is if all the spots are filled for the day. If you show up and have a heart beat, that’s all they care about. The burden is on people like me that will step up and do more then one person should be doing. I curse my parents for passing along their strong work ethic to me.
It's a similar scenario for me. I'm 52, w/ 25yrs with the same employer. The situation with my company just being happy people are showing up is something I've only experienced the past 2-3yrs. The ones we are able to hire quickly leave for the next slightly better offer. I'm one of only 2-3 people that they can lean on for most issues. This is tough for a continuous operation. It's shift work, so that obviously has it's challenges.
With 4 kids, all still at home and currently helping 2 of them with college. The whole 'me' thing took a back seat years ago. I don't go to work for myself. I do it provide for my family. With what everything costs today, I have to work all the hours I can. My wife has always been a stay at home mom. I am happy to do my part and feel fortunate I have what I have.
I guess my point is, your priorities and plans will change as time goes on. Try to plan ahead as best you can.