My wife (who is now expecting our first) has babysat a 3 and 7 yr. old for the past 8 months or so, which most days involves picking them up across town and bringing them back to our place for the day so the car does see duties comperable to "family running" use. In-law's and a lot of friends own Grand Caravans, the occasional Odyssey, etc., of 2003 or so model-year and up. Having considered some of the same things as you here's my $.02 worth. My opinion of the vehicle that combines all the traits we'd want if adding another to the fleet is a late GMT400 or 800 Tahoe or Suburban, K1500 or maybe a particularly well maintained small block K2500 - however, wifey hates maneuvering a full-size truck or SUV so something smaller (or at least that feels smaller) is in order. I dislike front wheel drive and "mom vans" but crossovers - new Explorer, Equinox, etc. - I heartily object to. Each vehicle of that type I've driven was more intimidating to pilot than anything else I've driven - bulky, strange vantage point on the chassis, drives like a brick wall going down the road (and not in the way my C3500 does), tons of space but to the end of ample comfort for a few passengers rather than respectable comfort for quite a few. In the face of buying something like that (except a Forester - head and shoulders above its competition IMHO) I'd buy a Caravan hands down. Straightforward, effective, pretty utilitarian when configured right, darned tough chassis for what's basically an oversized car, and in contrast to the crossovers it feels confident and natural to drive. I've passed on the 2-lane and driven in the city in the in-law's '09 Caravan and it's just as comfortable as being in any of my other vehicles - making it clear it has mass and some bulk, but not arranged such that it's difficult to command or will get away from you easily. Wifey agrees on that point. "Parent life" is manageable in a sedan, crew-cab mid-size pickup, etc., but I've abandoned my former opinion that people with a minivan need to go all-in and get a Suburban - they already have, just without my penchant for ground clearance, tow capacity, and, err, "gonads".