shokhead, the VQ series engines (yours is a VQ35DE IIRC) seem to turn in very good UOAs with thick 30-weight or thin 40-weight oils. Which grade of M1 have you been running?
My top two choices for the VQ engines are green German Castrol (GC) and M1 0W-40. (I haven't seen enough UOAs on the new gold GC to decide whether it's as good as the old green formula or not.)
Having said that, I'm currently running Shell Rotella T 5W-40 in my VQ because I'm wrapping up an Auto-Rx treatment. Once that's done I'll start dipping into my stash of green GC. I have enough to last for about five years' worth of OCIs.