@dlundblad
This is a Schnoodle
Father was a Miniature poodle, mother was a Miniature schnauzer.
I think the OP, even though he loves large dogs, will fine this dog INCREDIBLY, Strong, Sturdy, SMART. His bone structure is rock hard when you pick him up.
His wife will like it because as long as you get the miniature version will weigh about 30 pounds, they do not shed, they have hair like us, they do not drool.
When training you do have to affirm you are the master, they are so smart at first they will try to outsmart you. Once through the puppy stage you will have an INCREDIBLE loyal dog that will amaze you its whole life with its intelligence. He still amazes our family members, 14 years old and now blind, he plays with his toys every day, knows how to communicate with us when he has to go outside, NEVER has "mistakes" in the house. He will learn your routine to the minute. I dont know how. Even now, being blind, he knows morning and he knows when it's bed time and will still put himself to bed.
I never had a dog like this and never will again. He wont be with us much longer according to his doctor, though he doesnt know it or act like it but his heart valves are starting to fail. He most likely wont be with us for his 15th Christmas and maybe not his 15th Birthday in July. (Heart murmur) In case you haven't noticed I cant imagine him not being with us in the future. I know most feel that way about dogs, they are better than mankind.
(just research the poodle breed and schnauzer breed on what they were bred for, then mix them together
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@Dave Hess Schnauzers are incredible dogs. I understand like you cant imagine when he is no longer with us.
They also have what is called a "standard" schnoodle and can weight up to around 80lbs. I think.
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Properly trained the photo below shows him waiting for the command to eat his home made cheese hamburger for his 11th birthday (check out his eyes on the burger*LOL*)
Loves the boat and water too