You may find some insight on Jordan Peterson's website. Watch some of his videos on personality and his note to millenials. May be too cerebrial for you though.
Aren't you a landscaper? If so, then go with that. How can you assist women with their landscaping problems, maintainence, design, watering, etc? What works, what doesn't. Keys to a successful landscape. Volunteer to do a short program at a community library on this. Be the libraries "go to resource" for this subject. You'll meet all kinds of women.
Not to be condenscending, but your generation needs to learn & explore the Analog World. There's far too much emphasis on the Digital Domain and an-app-for-everything. You may have grown up in that but it's not real. Rather, it's a mirage. It's not about likes, hits, thumbs up, etc. First though, you have to be intelligent enough to realize this. Many no longer are.
The reason you may not be satisfied is because you're hunting in The Wrong Jungle.
Think about it....
