It's possible we might have crossed paths at crvownersclub.com. I don't recall. I have a different screen name there. Is your screenname there same or different as at BITOG?
I did cross paths at crvownersclub.com with
@Sequoiasoon who uses the same screen name at both forums. He recognized me there by my content and writing style.
I agree with you that are a lot of folks at crvownersclub.com who have no mechanical, oil, or filter knowledge and recite the mantra of only using dealership Honda OE parts, oils, & filters. Many of them also say they would only let a dealership maintain or repair their Honda.
However, that ^ promotes me to DIY demi-god status over there and Sequoiasoon is a full fledged DIY god over there. So I'm OK with that.
There are also some very knowledgeable DIY guys at crvownersclub.com who know a lot more than I do. Sequoiasoon and Bradley David Good are among my favorite experts there.
Both BITOG and crvownersclub.com forums have been very useful to me and most members very good to me. The same applies to the two Buick forums I belong to, but I wish the Buick forums were more active.