Small update on my friend's CRV- He went ~1100 miles on the last quart he added- not dramatically different enough from the baseline average of 1 quart per 1K miles on 30 grade to draw any conclusions, but at least seems to not be trending in a bad direction since the start of these experiments.
The roads are finally clear of salt and the Legend no longer leaks enough oil to visibly drop the level on the stick at least in the couple hundred miles I have been able to drive it. I'm planning a couple more trips out of town in the near future, so I should be able to put more miles on it soon.
The cold lifter tick doesn't seem to have improved further, but I found a couple reports of improper lifter preload causing lifter noises on these engines. Unlike most Hondas, the V6 in these 1st gen Legends has hydraulic lifters, but there's oddly still an adjustment on the exhaust side only. Anyways, I just ordered a set of side cover gaskets and will be checking the lifter preload just to make sure that's not an issue. I don't think that's my issue (or at least the only issue) since there only seems to be a few lifters ticking since I can hear them stop one at a time, but can't hurt to check.
Regardless of the outcome, I'll definitely still keep taking pictures under the front valve cover to document the progress. Although removing the front valve cover isn't a large amount of work, judging by the seemingly pretty slow progress, unless something changes, I'm thinking the next update will probably be next time I change the oil and filter.