I was unclear.
I was referring to when anyone encounters ANY new, unfamiliar connector you ask yourself, "What the heck kinda connector is it going to be this time? Is it a lift tab or push-in kinda tab".
I rewrote my post for clarity. I hope I succeeded.
Your situation was clearly stated.
I also liked the hair dryer idea. Nothing worse than breaking plastic during Winter car work.
Also, I've saved a slew of stainless steel ribs from old windshield wiper blades for this exact purpose. You gotta get under some of these things to lift up sometimes.
Why do they have SO MANY types of plug for heaven's sake?
Hey, we Rust Belt jacks speak the same language.