The problem is this...you need a totally new and different mindset to vehicle ownership. You can't be 100% OCD with vehicles because there's just too much out of your control. It's too risky of a formula. So change your mindset. Make the vehicle "your's". Own it, take care of it, but accept and actually appreciate some of the issues, scratches and dings, because they're your memories, they're your experiences. And keep that vehicle long term with your new outlook. You'll be surprised how different the relationship will be...how you can still do your best to take care of the car and appreciate it.