Yeah, there are a lot of options in the world of reloading presses.
I went through a similar debate when I got into reloading a couple years ago.
On the value end (since I had no idea if I'd like to reload and want to continue in the future), I was very close to getting the Lee Classic press. It's a 4-hole turret press that gets pretty good reviews. Make sure it's the Classic model, I believe the it's the better model with a cast iron base. I had this in my online cart for days while I was debating, it gets you going very inexpensively (~$300?).
My next step up was to invest in a progressive type press, of which I was debating the Hornady LnL and Dillon 650 models. I couldn't justify the 550 to myself since it was operationally similar to the Lee turret press, but for a lot more money (even more than the Hornady LnL).
Ultimately I went with the Hornady and am currently satisfied with it. I have no doubt the Dillons are great machines and worth the money, I just couldn't justify it at the time, knowing that I may not even like the hobby. Out the door, the 650 was significantly more expensive than the Hornady AP. Hornady had very good reviews still, so it's not like I was buying junk. In addition, Hornady had a mail-in-rebate promotion for 500 free XTP bullets, so that made the Hornady system even cheaper.
I've only reloaded pistol cartridges, but here's a few things I've encountered since I started:
- Switching calibers is a bit of a hassle, even with the LnL collars. From 9mm to 10mm, you still have to switch out the primer insertion parts and the shell plate. I can't imagine switching calibers and having to dial in dies every time.
- Now that I have enough brass saved up, I do much larger batches of 9mm and 10mm, just to avoid caliber switches
- I like the Lee Factory Crimp die. I bought the Hornady branded dies initially, but I found a few rounds that wouldn't chamber right, using the Lee FCD at the very end prevented this. (Looking back, I might have considered buying the Lee 4-die sets, but buying the add-on FCD was fine too). In hindsight, this is another reason I like the 5 station presses. Add a case checker and bullet puller to your list of stuff to buy, if you haven't already.
- I don't really like the Hornady primer loading method. You have to flip all the primers to be shiny side up, then manually use the tube to capture each one. Kind of tiring on the fingers. I'm considering a manual hand primer.
I wet process in SS pins in a cheap home-made tumbler. It's pretty small, but works for me. My current process is to deprime, then wet tumble. I'm probably inhaling a but extra powder residue while depriming a dirty case, but I don't want to tumble twice. I usually don't go in full progressive mode, I usually prime all my brass at once, then store it. When I'm ready to use, I resize, flare, drop powder, insert bullet, then finish with the FCD. I do this for 2 reasons, main reason was that one time I was reloading, I forgot to push the lever (essentially forgetting to insert a primer). Then I dropped the powder and it flowed right through, making a mess. The second reason is that I don't have to switch out the priming mechanism when switching calibers (I save up a lot more brass to do at once). Again, the manual hand primer might save me some time with my current process.
Good luck!