Thus far here the shelters are not that way, but "private" rescue organizations can be. In some areas the, say, golden retriever rescue will scour the shelters and scoop up all the Goldens, then they are nearly impossible to adopt from.I've had several adopted dogs over the years but the last 5 years the applications for adoption are unrealistically invasive privacy wise anymore so I quit. A lot are 10 pages of info they want. Then you don't hear back from them. What do they do with the info? It's almost like a child adoption background check.....
There's a balance and many places get carried away. Nothing wrong with leaving a pet all day so long as they have shelter, water and hopefully a place to relieve themselves.
Most people still gotta work but a lot of the do-gooders are retirees or wealthy and they don't fully understand that. You can still work 40+ per week and be a great pack leader!