I was just sitting here checking out the threads when I saw this one. It got me to thinking "man, I wonder how many miles I have on stick shifts?" I am going to only list the ones that I drove for a long time, more than 4-5k miles. There have been 4-5 that I've driven from 3k to 5kish miles. I'm going to add 15k total to whatever I come up with.
Stick 1, 1983 S10. Did have to replace a clutch after owning it for about 6-9 months. It was 9 years old when I bought it, probably factory clutch. I Drove it in that configuration for 2 years, call it 25k miles. Ended up putting a V8 with an automatic into it. Made the rookie mistake of not beefing up the rear end. Tore it all to hell 1st time I really got on it. Traded it to the guy who built it for me.
Stick 2, Opel Manta GT. Owned for about a year, tore up the front end one night driving from a buddies house who lived maybe 4 blocks down from me. Got in it, hit about 30 mph, curbed it going around a 75% curve (I should NOT have been driving) and just destroyed that front end. Sold it for almost what I had in it to a guy who had been asking me about it for a while. 10k miles
Stick 3, 96 Chevy Cavalier. Had that car for 5 years and drove it like I was Jeff Gordon Petty. Drove it ALL over the US, from down near Houston to as far north as Indianapolis. From as far west as Amarillo to Myrtle Beach SC. From the AR/OK border to Charlotte NC probably 20 times. About 130k miles.
Stick 4, Ford Escort. Bought it to use as a work car after Katrina (my DD was an 85 TA that got about 12 MPG if I drove it EASY, and Katrina made gas stupid expensive) and I ended up driving it for about 3 years, and for more than just a work car. About 25k miles
Stick 5, Ford Escape. Son still drives it, he bought it from me after I was done with. Rare 4 cyl 5 spd 4wd. Great little vehicle in crappy weather, loved it on ice and in snow. 45k miles
Stick 6, F150. Phenomenal little truck. No power windows, no amenities, 4.2 with a 5 spd. Drove it off and on for close to 10 years, though never any real distances, only when I needed a truck. 50k miles
Stick 7, Mustang. Totaled out at 35k miles. I put 30k on it, my son - about 5k
So in the neighborhood of 300,000 miles. I've replaced 1 clutch.
My son is on his THIRD clutch in that Escape. He can't drive a stick worth a darn.
Driving habits matter IMO. I drove every vehicle without using the clutch for thousands of miles. It was a bad habit, but I loved timing it so that it was flawless.
Heel/toe is a gimmick technique on most streets with most normal traffic. I tried it out with the Mustang, it wasn't for me.