Originally Posted By: alreadygone
If you even consider advice given here, or any other computer forum, instead of hiring a GOOD lawyer,,,,you probably aren't estate executor material!
Bob
I dont trust lawyers. The "lawyer's monopoly" is just that, a money grabbing, squeeze-you-out, good old boys (and girls) system, that requires a piece of paper to be able to do specific things. And then what is found is that they either charge ridiculous amounts of money, or are worthless.
Unfortunately, most all lawyers Ive encountered are neither smart enough to really carry on a rational discourse regarding a situation, nor are they well read/written enough to properly construct their legal documents that they are paid so much for.
Theirs is a game of bleeding matches. You can't do things without them, so you are thus forced to pay them by default. And it is for situations like wills, estates, etc., as well, not just civil cases. The sister is going to do just that IMO... cause enough hassle that the parents, executor, etc. will either bleed out the whole estate in court fees, or give in. And then again... you need to either pay up or you can't use the system in reality.
It is an absolutely ridiculous situation. As such, I applaud the OP for trying to seek out what others have had to learn the expensive way, and try to glean as much useful information as possible so that when he has to pay the $200 an hour rate for boat payments... I mean legal advice, he knows what is going on, what his options are, and can ask informed questions.
Relying on the lawyer's monopoly is just asking for higher costs and marginal service.
Sorry if Ive offended any lawyers here, but I simply have a bad taste in my mouth that won't go away.
JMH