Let me tell you a little story.
I met my wife when we were about 25. Normal dating,
When her parents got word of it after 3-4 dates, I had to meet them - first time - ALONE. Drive to their house. And sit in their living room! ALONE. No buffer...........
I knew pretty fast It was not her dad I had to worry about! He was a great vet of WWII, Korea and Vietnam. Sharp but super nice. Lucy? (USA assumed name) Her dad called his wife "Dragon Woman"! Anyway, it's kind of blur 41+ years ago, but I was grilled from birth details, family lineage, schools, job, future - wow. Worse than job interview - I had to be honest!!
I guess I passed. But it was kinda hard to have a normal conversation until later, maybe after we got engaged and they met my humble parents. Wow........I hadn't thought about some of this stuff in awhile.