"Some fluids are better at dampening noise than others. I just don't believe it has anything to do with which is a better lubricant..."
Everything else being equal less noise probably does suggest less wear and tear. In the case say 5W30 oils, dino vs Mobil 1, I guess you're relying on the higher film strength of the base oil if the additives are about the same. A thicker Mobil 1 with similar additives will tend to be quieter and will probably produce less wear. The issue wasn't just more noise, it was also more Fe, another symptom that needs to be explained away. Note that Delvac 1 seems to consistently get remarks about how quiet it is, and it also consistently good reports on not only good UOAs but wear too.
Everything else being equal less noise probably does suggest less wear and tear. In the case say 5W30 oils, dino vs Mobil 1, I guess you're relying on the higher film strength of the base oil if the additives are about the same. A thicker Mobil 1 with similar additives will tend to be quieter and will probably produce less wear. The issue wasn't just more noise, it was also more Fe, another symptom that needs to be explained away. Note that Delvac 1 seems to consistently get remarks about how quiet it is, and it also consistently good reports on not only good UOAs but wear too.