OP,
yes I think about these things just like you and Gokhan do, and I too prefer less polymer VII in my oil.
But at the end of the day, oil is made for a mass market, not for you and me as a super boutique product. Yet it works fine, just look at all the old cars on the road.
I would love a PAO based, VII free, 5W30 (or 10W30) fortified with esters, AN and the best inorganic additives. In reality I'm happy with any name brand that is rated API SP, or Euro (ACEA) A3/B4 or A5/B5. It's all I really need.
If I want to chase more, I look for solid OEMs like MB229.5 / MB 229.51 or Porsche A40 or even Dexos etc. But SP really is enough for me.