But they're not “pretty much the same”. Your driving skills and my driving skills, or someone else’s driving skills are really what you’re referring to. And I get that. Ive driven in snow, winter, ice, slush, freezing rain, blizzards...all of my life. It’s all I know from November till April since the day I got my license 32 years ago. I’m very “good” at it. I can drive through almost anything - as I’m sure you can too - but an AWD vehicle or a 4WD vehicle is not the same as a RWD vehicle or even a FWD vehicle, they are better, much better. Tires or not, they are better. Throw the same tires on the 4WD vehicle as the vehicle with RWD and it’s no comparison.
And I know there are people that think they can drive an AWD vehicle like a maniac through a snow storm and end up on the side of the road. It’s not because of the vehicle it’s because of them. If they were in a RWD vehicle doing that they wouldn’t be on the side of the road...they’d be in a tree or never would have made it out of their driveway.