Not to come off like a jerk, but as someone who regularly endured NYC metro area rush hour traffic, I never understood some of the "I hate sitting in traffic, with a manual" comments.
Now...if someone has a physical ailment, or if they're driving a Super Duty, I can understand that a clutch can get wearisome. But for most people, it's negligible.
Clutch in, put car in first, slip clutch; can't fully release clutch pedal because traffic is going 3mph and first gear idle is 5mph so I constantly have to feather throttle. Traffic stops, pedal in, neutral, pedal ou....oh wait traffic is moving again so clutch in, put car in first, slip clutch....etc.
Or gas pedal, brake pedal.
I like driving manual, but sometimes you just want to get in and let the car do most of the work. My Focus was the worst manual transmission I've ever driven - some of it was the gearing of the transmission and the rest of it was the terrible programming from Ford. The Subaru was actually really good and enjoyable but I was just ready to go to having 2 pedals.
Agreed, the focus's gearing was horrendous. Typical first, super long second, short third, super long fourth, decent fifth, useless sixth. This made timing the shift for buttery smooth shifting hard. You could really just use 2nd and 4th gear and skip the others if you wanted too. The evo's gearing was spot on through and very linear and predictable, made me appreciate the small things about cars that you normally don't think about when driving.