Imho it comes down to if it’s one foot going back and forth, or two.
When my wife and I got married we had 2 manuals only. We never thought, “Wouldn’t an auto be better in traffic.”
I guess nowadays being for manuals is the old man yells at cloud conundrum. It would seem as one reads through this never ending mystery, nobody can truly have their own opinion.
Some like to focus their lens. Even less common some shoot with film. There are still kids who ride bikes, and maybe some prefer them over electric scooters. There may even be adults who prefer no electric motor on their bike.
I think people who prefer automatics sincerely do. It’s just that I think this notion of traffic having any bearing at all on the preference, should be decoupled.
Someday I’ll get another stick but a full sized suv is next up. So I’m glad to still have one in the garage as the other was junked 1 1/2 years ago.
edit thought of this one. When my dad bought his Kubota, it was an 8 speed manual. I am not sure but I do not think he had a choice--today, one does with the equivalent. But I do remember back then, Cub Cadets already had hydrostatic transmissions, and it was a selling point. Not having to change gears manually exuded opulence.
Around the same time, Porsche had a new fangled car that came out. It had an engine in the front, liquid cooling, and 75% of them were sold with automatics. I had the opportunity to test drive a few maybe 8-9 years down the road, and I always went for the 5 speed manual. One time the salesman took it out of the showroom, said he would drive it off the lot, and he lost control, which really wasn't supposed to happen like it could with the 911.