I helped my daughter with a bad vehicle situation

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Just to preface this, you outlined this in a public space and thats fine. However you shouldnt be surprised when other people have differing opinions about what you and you family did. You can justify it any way you want, this is bigger than going upside down on a car loan. They are now in a viscous cycle that will expose them to future exploitation by sales people. I have been broke, I have been poor, I know how it feels and I also hold the opinion that their current path isnt the way out. You came here for validation and some folks are just going to think youre wrong, me included.
And I don't care what you, or others think...I expect to get raked over the coals whenever I post something like this in here because a lot of people in this forum think they're experts on the these types of subjects...
 
Like I said, they didn't have the money to fix the van. And even if they did, what was the next breakage lurking around the corner? The van was falling apart and had turned into a money pit...
Fixing your current vehicle is usually the most sensible financial option. Nothing you've told us suggests their Odyssey was a money pit.

Remember that "If nothing changes, nothing changes." If you buy an expensive vehicle there will be expenses. What are they going to do when the Pilot needs maintenance?
 
Fixing your current vehicle is usually the most sensible financial option. Nothing you've told us suggests their Odyssey was a money pit.

Remember that "If nothing changes, nothing changes." If you buy an expensive vehicle there will be expenses. What are they going to do when the Pilot needs maintenance?
And for the last time now, they didn't have the money to make the repairs needed on the van. I don't know where you people think they were going to come up with the money for these repairs. If they don't have the money, they don't have the money...
 
Fixing your current vehicle is usually the most sensible financial option. Nothing you've told us suggests their Odyssey was a money pit.

Remember that "If nothing changes, nothing changes." If you buy an expensive vehicle there will be expenses. What are they going to do when the Pilot needs maintenance?
Hopefully when the Pilot needs repairs, it won't have 15 different expensive things going wrong all at the same time...
 
And for the last time now, they didn't have the money to make the repairs needed on the van. I don't know where you people think they were going to come up with the money for these repairs. If they don't have the money, they don't have the money...
Understood. Easier to get a car loan than a private loan to repair old clunker.

Still think this was a mistake. You should have given them your 423k Corolla and “made” them save, each month, the car payment that they now have to pay to someone else.
 
Understood. Easier to get a car loan than a private loan to repair old clunker.

Still think this was a mistake. You should have given them your 423k Corolla and “made” them save, each month, the car payment that they now have to pay to someone else.
Nah, I need my Corolla...they will get through this...and you're entitled to think whatever you want...
 
Car falls apart due to neglect and the manufacturer gets the blame.

I think some fresh plastic with 12mo of 0% interest would have fixed the van. Cheaper than taking a bath on the trade while just pushing the maintenance back.
The power door motors going out had nothing to do with owner neglect. The TSB required had nothing to do with owner neglect. The brakes being bad had nothing to do with owner neglect (normal wear and tear item). Honda's stupid design of using a timing belt instead of a chain had nothing to do with owner neglect, however, not having it changed did...so most of the problems with this van were not owner neglect...
 
She and my son-in-law had a 2014 Honda Odyssey that had a check engine light on, so I took it in to my mechanic. $700 later it was ready to be picked up. When I get there my mechanic tells me the vehicle 20K miles overdue for a timing belt replacement, which is a $750-$1000 job, and it has a TSB that needs to be done, and the brakes are pulsating, which usually means it needs brake work. I try to help them out with maintenance, but I'm limited to doing mainly fluid and filter changes, as I just don't have the tools or the knowledge to do any major repairs. I will say my son-in-law is not a car guy, that coupled with the fact that they live on a very limited budget means they're not good at taking care of the scheduled maintenance items, so a lot of the problems with this van stem from neglect. That said, I'm a bit disappointed in Honda for the way this van just seems to be falling apart. It also has power sliding doors and both of those motors quit working as well. The van only has 129K miles, and I expected better from Honda. The thing that really has me puzzled, and I think is a BIG knock against Honda is their insistence on using timing belts in their engines instead of chains. Belts need to be replaced periodically, chains don't. I don't know why Honda won't switch over to chains. At any rate, the van needs another $2-3K of repairs, and they simply don't have the money for the repairs. Their options were very limited, as they still owed more on the loan than the van was worth. My daughter ended up trading in the van for a 2015 Pilot. The trade left her with about $5k from the van loan that had to be rolled into the new loan, and she had to go with a 7 year loan to get the payments low enough. The mileage is low enough (73K) on the Pilot that they hopefully won't have any expensive repairs in the near future, though it too will be due for a timing belt replacement at around 100K. I hated the fact that she had to be in this situation at all, and there really was no good solution, but I'm hoping for her this was the better of the two choices...

Sounds like she is buying vehicles she can't afford to procure, let alone keep and operate.

You didnt state in OP what the cause of the CEL was. Doesnt seem that it was the timing belt. Also didnt mention the history of the brakes. I dont think either of these things happening at 129k is out of the ordinary.

Common knowledge, at least for the casual reader on BITOG, that these engines have timing belts. Nothing new or surprising there, lots of vehicles do. Chains require maintenance to be properly kept too. Wear needs to be assessed, woodruff keys used to get timing back, and they too break. Tensioners go bad, other stuff needs to be done.

Our 2014 odyssey has 70k (original brakes despite substantial in-town use). If hers has 129k, it must get a lot of highway use. Ours has daily use including both electronic sliding doors (a feature I didnt really want), and theyre both working fine. They can be overridden and operated manually too... Im concerned about the possibility of sludge in ours (I have a thread on that), but its use profile, not vehicle quality. Our friend's sienna that was bought at the same time as our odyssey has been to the dealer more times for issues including doors, water leaks, and other matters. Use takes its toll on stuff, especially if people arent careful.

A 7 year loan on a 6-7 year old vehicle that is closing in fast on its own need for a timing belt replacement is a fool's errand. Best to get rid of vanity, smart phones, and whatever else is causing fiscal problems, and drive something that is much more economical to operate and own.
 
The power door motors going out had nothing to do with owner neglect. The TSB required had nothing to do with owner neglect. The brakes being bad had nothing to do with owner neglect (normal wear and tear item). Honda's stupid design of using a timing belt instead of a chain had nothing to do with owner neglect, however, not having it changed did...so most of the problems with this van were not owner neglect...

Not sure about the power doors. A friend has a 2005 (IIRC) Odyssey with >280k, and one door motor (actually the cable) just failed, for the first time.

I know with ours, if its cold or icy, the doors will still try to operate... Good idea? Grit can get into the tracks. Honda's fault?

As mentioned above, they can be overridden. My wife is careful to do so if there's a chance of freeze...
 
Not like today. Today there are plenty of economical SUVs, the Pilot is one of them...
It has the same engine as the Odyssey and hence, the horrible timing belt design. Good chance the same TSB affects the Pilot as the Odyssey. The fuel economy in the Pilot will be worse.

I get that you're going to defend your daughter but on the other hand, it seems like you think everyone will fall in line behind you, cheering you on and supporting the criticisms you make (on every topic). That's not how internet forums work though ! 😂
 
Grit can get into the tracks. Honda's fault?
We had an '05 Odyssey with almost 160k miles and the original door mechanisms. They would frequently not fully close and re-open but that was user-fault, i.e. something the kids dropped that fell into the door channel. I learned to clean out the "channels" on both sides and spray silicone lubricant on the roller paths as well as the rollers themselves at the bottom and the ones on the side panels.
 
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