How Long do you wait?

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I give them maybe 30 seconds, then I do a short beep. If they don't get it, a longer beep follows. By then there are probably more beeps from inconvenienced autos behind me. If there is an obvious issue that caused the stoppage, no beep.
 
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Funny yet true story: I was #2 in line on a left turn red light. The light turns green but the person in front of me doesn't go; she's looking down (probably at a phone). I wait a few seconds to be polite. Then just as I lift my hand to beep, the light turns yellow. By the time I beep and she looks up, the light is red again. She lifts her hand and flips me off, never realizing the light turned green, thinking I beeped at her for no reason.

Be careful out there, they walk among us.
 

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A few seconds then tap the horn.... Just a few days ago I was at a stop light...first at the light and when the light turned green for me for some reason I delayed moving by a few seconds....Well in that few seconds that I was stopped a fully leaded large dump truck when through the intersection...I know that if I had moved when the light turned green I would have been hit on the drivers side by the dump truck...I was very lucky...
 
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Not sure if the question is how long would you wait if you are car number 2 or more or what do you do when the light turns green?

If I'm not the first car, depends on how long the light is (if I know the intersection). For example, if the light only lasts 3 cars, I'm on the horn pretty quick. Normal intersection 5 or 10 seconds.

If I'm the first car, there's intersections I'll pause at when the light turns green if I'm not convinced the car(s) on the intersecting street is going to come to a stop. See people all the time speeding thru a yellow or ultimately a red, and it isn't uncommon to see someone running a red when "my" light has been green for a few seconds.
 
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Around here they lay on the horn immediately then go around on the wrong side of the road. I try to stay out of the way of the morons,

If its just the two of us and its obvious there texting I'll give a quick beep. If there is more than the two of us I can rely on whomever is behind me to honk for me.
 
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In the city, it's common for people to run red lights a second or two after the light has turned. If I'm behind someone at a red light and don't have a clear view of the intersection I will give them a few seconds before I give them a gentle honk because they may see something I can't see.
 
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Good 5 seconds at the most -- then the horn is on FULL BLAST until they move. Dang well know there on there cell phone. Unless I can physically see its a Granny or Pop Pop behind the wheel. Then a whole 10 -- 12 seconds before a honk.
 
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If I see they're on the phone (head down, lit up by the glow of the screen, etc), I don't honk. I put the car in Park, get out, walk up to their window and in one swift move grab their phone and jam it down their glottis.
 
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