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It's like a hyundai sanata. I don't know which type but I know it's one of the small cars that hyundai makes. Probably like a 2000 model if I had to guess. She wants one of the newer camaros though.
Hot girl in my automotive class. Need advice.
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Man, with the suspense, you're killing us old relics that have to live vicariously by proxy. Things seemed so much easier during my university years; I think having the largest on campus bar in Canada may have helped, as did spending at least two nights a week there. Things back then were so much simpler: you drank, you made the rounds, and at the end of the night you picked the prospect that appealed the most (or was the surest bet, best nights were when she was both) and went home with her. If you wound up mildly interested in her the next morning, you dated for a few months before moving on.
The odd night you left alone was easily chaulked up to crossing the fine line between liquid courage, to liquid stupid, before the night peaked.
As I never got to know any of them, no matter how long the fling lasted, to the point of knowing the car they aspired to one day own, I can only conclude times have really changed.
Either that or you're moving way too slowly.
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The odd night you left alone was easily chaulked up to crossing the fine line between liquid courage, to liquid stupid, before the night peaked.
As I never got to know any of them, no matter how long the fling lasted, to the point of knowing the car they aspired to one day own, I can only conclude times have really changed.
Either that or you're moving way too slowly.
-Spyder
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Originally Posted By: motor_oil_madman
It's like a hyundai sanata. I don't know which type but I know it's one of the small cars that hyundai makes. Probably like a 2000 model if I had to guess. She wants one of the newer camaros though.
I have your answer, just buy a new camaro then ask her if she wants to drive it!
It's like a hyundai sanata. I don't know which type but I know it's one of the small cars that hyundai makes. Probably like a 2000 model if I had to guess. She wants one of the newer camaros though.
I have your answer, just buy a new camaro then ask her if she wants to drive it!
woops wrong thread!
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I guess no one saw the hidden humor in my post
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Originally Posted By: Troy_Built
I guess no one saw the hidden humor in my post
So what's wrong with chevys? And more specifically a girl that owns one?
I guess no one saw the hidden humor in my post
So what's wrong with chevys? And more specifically a girl that owns one?
I was messing.
I'd just ignore her more or less. I am not saying be rude to her or pretend like she doesn't exist, just don't pursue her. If she talks to you be nice to her. A lot of girls don't like to be treated like objects, so if you are not hunting her, she will see you are different. It would be the exact opposite of what all the other guys are doing...therefore you'd be different, if she is worth it she'll come and talk to you or ask about you.
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I know. I was just acknowledging your hidden humor.
i just looked at a few recent posts, at random. i'm lmao that this thread is still going strong.most must think that it is goofy, since there are only 68 replies of 1212 views.one thing -- it certainly is funny.carry on, guys, and thanks for the entertainment. the comedy channel has nothing on this.i'll check back in a day, or two, when i'm due for a laugh.
helen must be eating this up, as a female, listening to all of this ann landers type advice, on how to pick up a female. enjoy, helen, enjoy.
helen must be eating this up, as a female, listening to all of this ann landers type advice, on how to pick up a female. enjoy, helen, enjoy.
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Yeah I figured if I didn't get any good advice at least I would get some good entertainment.
First off, how hot are you? If you are not comparable, then keep dreaming about her and find someone comparable for reality. The best personality and confidence won't help a "4" guy get a "9" girl except maybe in films or if the guy has 20 million dollars. She likely has a lot of options.
Secondly, if you feel you have a realistic chance you need to act fast. Get her facebook or myspace info. She may feel intimidated by being surrounded by dozens of horny guys and being the only girl, and drop the class.
Secondly, if you feel you have a realistic chance you need to act fast. Get her facebook or myspace info. She may feel intimidated by being surrounded by dozens of horny guys and being the only girl, and drop the class.
Originally Posted By: Smokescreen
I'd just ignore her more or less. I am not saying be rude to her or pretend like she doesn't exist, just don't pursue her. If she talks to you be nice to her. A lot of girls don't like to be treated like objects, so if you are not hunting her, she will see you are different. It would be the exact opposite of what all the other guys are doing...therefore you'd be different, if she is worth it she'll come and talk to you or ask about you.
I wouldn't ignore her completely. The best way is to first get her FB or MS info, which girls will tend to give out because it's far less personal than their phone number and has no "dating" stigma associated with it. Once he has that, he can take his time and show only limited interest.
She may be attracted to this type of guy who ignores her because he seems mysterious and so different than other guys, which picques her curiosity. Or she may be into super-aggressive guys and think he's a wuss for not even trying. It's a coinflip in my experience. Either way can work or fail
I'd just ignore her more or less. I am not saying be rude to her or pretend like she doesn't exist, just don't pursue her. If she talks to you be nice to her. A lot of girls don't like to be treated like objects, so if you are not hunting her, she will see you are different. It would be the exact opposite of what all the other guys are doing...therefore you'd be different, if she is worth it she'll come and talk to you or ask about you.
I wouldn't ignore her completely. The best way is to first get her FB or MS info, which girls will tend to give out because it's far less personal than their phone number and has no "dating" stigma associated with it. Once he has that, he can take his time and show only limited interest.
She may be attracted to this type of guy who ignores her because he seems mysterious and so different than other guys, which picques her curiosity. Or she may be into super-aggressive guys and think he's a wuss for not even trying. It's a coinflip in my experience. Either way can work or fail
Originally Posted By: tonycarguy
She may be attracted to this type of guy who ignores her because he seems mysterious and so different than other guys, which picques her curiosity. Or she may be into super-aggressive guys and think he's a wuss for not even trying. It's a coinflip in my experience. Either way can work or fail
Or she may simply assume he's gay.
-Spyder
She may be attracted to this type of guy who ignores her because he seems mysterious and so different than other guys, which picques her curiosity. Or she may be into super-aggressive guys and think he's a wuss for not even trying. It's a coinflip in my experience. Either way can work or fail
Or she may simply assume he's gay.
-Spyder
Originally Posted By: mechtech2
If she kinda knows you, just try asking her out! Have a specific event or two.
Have a safe and sane place/thing to do , and ask her about a date. Movies are not that good - you can't talk or get to know each other. A bite to eat afterwards can be good.
All sorts of things to do! They do not have to be mind boggling super duper events at all!
If she says no, good. Why waste your time?
If she says yes, good.
Either way you win.
It is either there, or it isn't.
Certifiably approved.
Get to the point and have a plan. Something oddball but fun.
To the OP:
I noticed you said you have 10 gallons of used oil sitting around. Perfect. Sometime on your date, without any words, just pull into your local auto recycling center and unload it all. Get back into the truck and if she asks anything, answer with: "It's ok, I already collected a sample for my UOA." Don't speak another word about it and drive to your next venture or whatever you're going to do.
If she kinda knows you, just try asking her out! Have a specific event or two.
Have a safe and sane place/thing to do , and ask her about a date. Movies are not that good - you can't talk or get to know each other. A bite to eat afterwards can be good.
All sorts of things to do! They do not have to be mind boggling super duper events at all!
If she says no, good. Why waste your time?
If she says yes, good.
Either way you win.
It is either there, or it isn't.
Certifiably approved.
Get to the point and have a plan. Something oddball but fun.
To the OP:
I noticed you said you have 10 gallons of used oil sitting around. Perfect. Sometime on your date, without any words, just pull into your local auto recycling center and unload it all. Get back into the truck and if she asks anything, answer with: "It's ok, I already collected a sample for my UOA." Don't speak another word about it and drive to your next venture or whatever you're going to do.
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Originally Posted By: tonycarguy
First off, how hot are you? If you are not comparable, then keep dreaming about her and find someone comparable for reality. The best personality and confidence won't help a "4" guy get a "9" girl except maybe in films or if the guy has 20 million dollars. She likely has a lot of options.
Secondly, if you feel you have a realistic chance you need to act fast. Get her facebook or myspace info. She may feel intimidated by being surrounded by dozens of horny guys and being the only girl, and drop the class.
I disagree. I've seen alot of "4" guys have a "9" girlfriend (or wife).
My wife is much hotter than I am and she didn't marry me for the money either. I think attitude, confidence, and the way you conduct yourself (if you have your act together) goes further with women that just looks. Of course, if you're not looking for a relationship, I don't know if any of that applies!
First off, how hot are you? If you are not comparable, then keep dreaming about her and find someone comparable for reality. The best personality and confidence won't help a "4" guy get a "9" girl except maybe in films or if the guy has 20 million dollars. She likely has a lot of options.
Secondly, if you feel you have a realistic chance you need to act fast. Get her facebook or myspace info. She may feel intimidated by being surrounded by dozens of horny guys and being the only girl, and drop the class.
I disagree. I've seen alot of "4" guys have a "9" girlfriend (or wife).
My wife is much hotter than I am and she didn't marry me for the money either. I think attitude, confidence, and the way you conduct yourself (if you have your act together) goes further with women that just looks. Of course, if you're not looking for a relationship, I don't know if any of that applies!
Originally Posted By: bigmike
I think attitude, confidence, and the way you conduct yourself (if you have your act together) goes further with women that just looks. Of course, if you're not looking for a relationship, I don't know if any of that applies!
When you're not looking for a relationship, the main difference is that you only have to seem to have those traits, rather than actually have them.
I think attitude, confidence, and the way you conduct yourself (if you have your act together) goes further with women that just looks. Of course, if you're not looking for a relationship, I don't know if any of that applies!
When you're not looking for a relationship, the main difference is that you only have to seem to have those traits, rather than actually have them.
OK,
All you really know is that she is "hot" and she's in your class. Is she seeing someone? What does she talk about? What do you know about her besides she's hot and a convenient target for male attention?
There are some really good comments above.
1. Be confident. Confidence is attractive.
2. Get to know her as a person. That's tough to do from a distance. Take interest in her. Ask her what draws her to a class like this. LISTEN. Don't share your story unless she wants to know why you are there. (That's a good sign, BTW)
The first two are probably the biggest because women are about relationships (generally speaking) so you finding her hot, while interesting to most of the guys here, probably will not impress her. You taking the time to learn something about her other than her hotness may win you a huge number of cool points.
Others that may help:
3. Be safe. You don't want to be a stalker or as my stepdaughter would say, a creeper.
4. Be interesting. You are fishing, so you have to use a lure she finds interesting. That comes from getting to know something about her.
5. Be respectful. If she says no, no means no. If she's in a relationship, wish her the best, even if she's lying to give you the brush off.
Girls/women talk. My stepdaughter dated a boy and he turned out to be as she says, a real creeper. He got upset when she broke it off. The problem for him is that word got around about his behavior. He failed to consider than in the 12000 text messages a month she sends, a good number of them put out the word that he was a jerk and a creeper, so his options are seriously diminished today.
So in a high school with over 2000 students, his options are now seriously limited.
Dating in the information age means bad news is more quickly spread. Don't make yourself into bad news.
All you really know is that she is "hot" and she's in your class. Is she seeing someone? What does she talk about? What do you know about her besides she's hot and a convenient target for male attention?
There are some really good comments above.
1. Be confident. Confidence is attractive.
2. Get to know her as a person. That's tough to do from a distance. Take interest in her. Ask her what draws her to a class like this. LISTEN. Don't share your story unless she wants to know why you are there. (That's a good sign, BTW)
The first two are probably the biggest because women are about relationships (generally speaking) so you finding her hot, while interesting to most of the guys here, probably will not impress her. You taking the time to learn something about her other than her hotness may win you a huge number of cool points.
Others that may help:
3. Be safe. You don't want to be a stalker or as my stepdaughter would say, a creeper.
4. Be interesting. You are fishing, so you have to use a lure she finds interesting. That comes from getting to know something about her.
5. Be respectful. If she says no, no means no. If she's in a relationship, wish her the best, even if she's lying to give you the brush off.
Girls/women talk. My stepdaughter dated a boy and he turned out to be as she says, a real creeper. He got upset when she broke it off. The problem for him is that word got around about his behavior. He failed to consider than in the 12000 text messages a month she sends, a good number of them put out the word that he was a jerk and a creeper, so his options are seriously diminished today.
So in a high school with over 2000 students, his options are now seriously limited.
Dating in the information age means bad news is more quickly spread. Don't make yourself into bad news.
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Originally Posted By: bigmike
I think attitude, confidence, and the way you conduct yourself (if you have your act together) goes further with women that just looks. Of course, if you're not looking for a relationship, I don't know if any of that applies!
When you're not looking for a relationship, the main difference is that you only have to seem to have those traits, rather than actually have them.
Proof is definitely in the time-frame!
Originally Posted By: bigmike
I think attitude, confidence, and the way you conduct yourself (if you have your act together) goes further with women that just looks. Of course, if you're not looking for a relationship, I don't know if any of that applies!
When you're not looking for a relationship, the main difference is that you only have to seem to have those traits, rather than actually have them.
Proof is definitely in the time-frame!
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