My parents are over 90 and live in their house.
They are forgetful but mostly functional. They do not drive. The eyesight between the two is extremely marginal.
My brother delivers groceries to them. And they have a house cleaner every two weeks.
Their finances are high and good, they spend near zero. Money is not an issue.
They definitely need help. But they are so stubborn. So proud. If they weren't my parents I would call them idiotic, by I will leave it at illogical.
We are trying to hire a helper, but they are having none of it. I need help. We need help! I'm not talking medical help for them, but a generalized helper.
A helper can:
Make some meals (not all meals)
Do day to day laundry
Keep up the pantry and fridge (was a scary disaster, say no more)
Arrange the house (stuff a cleaner doesn't do every two weeks)
Change sheets
Be on duty if they fall (both have tripped)
What else?
Other ideas to help us to at least open them up to the idea.
They are forgetful but mostly functional. They do not drive. The eyesight between the two is extremely marginal.
My brother delivers groceries to them. And they have a house cleaner every two weeks.
Their finances are high and good, they spend near zero. Money is not an issue.
They definitely need help. But they are so stubborn. So proud. If they weren't my parents I would call them idiotic, by I will leave it at illogical.
We are trying to hire a helper, but they are having none of it. I need help. We need help! I'm not talking medical help for them, but a generalized helper.
A helper can:
Make some meals (not all meals)
Do day to day laundry
Keep up the pantry and fridge (was a scary disaster, say no more)
Arrange the house (stuff a cleaner doesn't do every two weeks)
Change sheets
Be on duty if they fall (both have tripped)
What else?
Other ideas to help us to at least open them up to the idea.