Luckily your wife was OK and got better.
I would pay off any debt. If your daughter starts working a part time job at 18 I’d definitely open up a Roth IRA in her name and fund it to get the snowball rolling. 50% technology and the other 50% in S&P 500 ETF / mutual fund.
I opened Vanguard Roth IRAs for all my kids when they turned 18 and it got them on track to take retirement seriously. All 3 were working part time jobs and I gifted them the max contribution for the first year.
I would pay off any debt. If your daughter starts working a part time job at 18 I’d definitely open up a Roth IRA in her name and fund it to get the snowball rolling. 50% technology and the other 50% in S&P 500 ETF / mutual fund.
I opened Vanguard Roth IRAs for all my kids when they turned 18 and it got them on track to take retirement seriously. All 3 were working part time jobs and I gifted them the max contribution for the first year.