",,,Does everybody need to feel empowered by beating up on somebody for a filter gasket issue.
Really, once was enough..."
No it wasn't. He asked a question to his peers. His peers all have the right to respond. All of them. How do you know how many times he needs to hear something before he realizes it was his 'mea culpa'. By his, and I am wrong in assuming he is a male,(and I'll accept that), his opening statement lays blame to others, in this case Fram filter. Fram Ultra filters.
The OP should accept that he made the error, accept that it was his learning experience. If he came forward and was willing share what happened to him so others can learn, and others might not have corrected him. But he only wants to ask others if this happen to them and get confirmation, as if it was someone else fault. That is why once was not enough. Really.
Respectfully-tgrudzin