I have no problem with taxes in that I cannot do better on elsewhere. Supposedly lower-tax PA, to live in a town/district that is like where I grew up and like where I live now meant the same costs for homes, property tax, etc. What benefit do I have? Slightly lower income tax, but no reciprication on my city wage tax (so it comes out in the wash)? 1% sales tax savings?
Property tax is lower in DE, but living in a "nice" area means having your kids bussed in order to integrate schools. This means that most send their kids to private school. 100% of the folks that I work with that have kids in DE do this. Nice expense there...
So what is my compelling benefit to live in a supposedly cheaper state? I still pay the same to get what I want... And I have cheaper gas and a FAR better commute (both equal far lower mobility costs), living in this "expensive" tax to death area.
Show me what is compelling, I sure am not seeing it in my local area, leat alone the Auburn, AL and Raleigh, NC examples I showed previously...
I also have no problem with taxes that provide me with infrastructure that suits me. I have public water, sewer and trash collection... Somebody has to pay for that. I have an awesome town pool that is beautiful... Got to pay for that. I have to have decent schools for my kids to go to... Got to pay for that.